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AI Won’t Replace You – However People Who Use It Will

AI Won’t Replace You – However People Who Use It Will

Artificial intelligence is no longer theoretical – it is actively reshaping careers, leadership, and relevance.

In this episode of the Power Of Women Podcast, Di Gillett is joined by Kelly Slessor, one of Australia’s most respected AI strategists, digital innovators, and retail technology leaders, for a deeply human conversation about what AI really means for women, work and leadership.

Kelly was building AI personalisation platforms years before ChatGPT entered the mainstream. Today, she works at the intersection of artificial intelligence, emotional intelligence, and human systems, advising businesses, educating leaders, and advocating for responsible, human-centred technology.

This episode moves beyond surface-level AI commentary to ask harder, more consequential questions:

Who becomes more powerful in an AI-enabled world?

Why fear is the wrong response – and education is the only viable one

Why women are underrepresented in AI leadership, yet uniquely positioned to shape its future

How AI data is shaped by men and women’s voices are paramount

How fostering children has profoundly shaped Kelly’s leadership philosophy, empathy and perspective

Why “balance” is a myth – and what actually sustains women operating at pace

This is not a conversation about keeping up.
It’s a conversation about agency, authorship and relevance, in a world that is moving faster than most organisations are willing to admit.

 

➡️We explore:

  • Why AI will augment people, not replace them
  • The real risk for leaders who delay AI education
  • How repetitive work will disappear and what replaces it
  • Why emotional intelligence is the missing ingredient in AI development
  • How women can leapfrog professionally by engaging with AI now
  • The leadership lessons Kelly learned through foster care
  • Why safety, belonging, and trust matter in teams and in technology

 

➡️Key Takeaways:

AI literacy is now a leadership requirement, not a technical skill

People who understand AI will outpace those who avoid it

Women’s lived experience strengthens, not weakens their leadership in tech

Education dissolves fear faster than policy or process

The future belongs to leaders who integrate HI (Human Intelligence) with AI

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What Investors Really Look For in Female Founders

What Investors Really Look For in Female Founders

What actually makes a founder investable – and why hustle culture may be working against women.

In this episode of the Power Of Women Podcast, Di Gillett sits down with Dan Copsey – entrepreneur, investor, and Group CEO, to unpack what investors really assess when backing founders, particularly women.

This is not a surface-level conversation about confidence or pitching harder.

Dan reveals why honesty beats hype, why performative hustle culture is a red flag, and why many of the most investable female founders are undervaluing what they already bring to the table.

From founder-investor dynamics to gender bias in startup rooms, this episode delivers an unfiltered investor lens every ambitious woman in business needs to hear.

 

You’ll hear:

Why honesty is the #1 trait investors look for

The biggest red flags investors see in pitches

Why hustle culture is failing founders – especially women

What female founders are doing right but not articulating

How motherhood, life load and leadership are undervalued assets

What makes an investor–founder relationship succeed long-term

How to know when your business is truly ready to scale.

 

Dan’s advice:

Lead with who you are, not just what you’re building

Hustle culture is not a credibility signal

Don’t take money from the wrong investor

Protect your equity early

Be transparent about your full life load

Build sustainability into your success

Choose investors who bring more than money.

 

Dan said:

“Honesty is the single most important trait in a founder.”

“Hustle culture distracts from the true core of entrepreneurship.”

“If an investor can’t add value to your life, they’re not the right investor.”

 

📖 Read the full transcript of this conversation here 👇

FULL TRANSCRIPT:

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (00:02)

There’s a lot of sharks in the water out there, especially at the moment. They’ll want to take a lot of equity off you very quickly and people can get really lost in the fact that, cool, we’re half a million dollars, but maybe you’re losing some.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (00:14)

Nothing’s

 

for nothing.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (00:15)

An investor-founder relationship is almost like another personal relationship. You need to find the right person, need to find the right team. They need to add value to your life, just like a husband or a wife with no value to their partner’s life. You’ve got to work well together.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (00:32)

One word that defines a great founder. Biggest red flag in a pitch.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (00:35)

Honest.

 

arrows that go up. I watched her go and I’m you are unbelievable. You are unbelievable. And when I first met her, she was like, she’d had a bad day. And I met her through a networking group and she walked in and she sort of just unloaded on the entire group. And I remember grabbing her at the dinner afterwards and saying, hey, don’t give up. Don’t give up. I said, the reason why they are treating you like that is because they’re scared of you.

 

My name is Dan Copsey I’m a very driven entrepreneur. ⁓ I’ve had many experiences in my professional and personal life and I really enjoy ⁓ working with different people and being involved with people. think people, it doesn’t matter what you do in life. I think being around the right people and being part of, know, ⁓ and having good people to work with and take on the journey is what I really enjoy.

 

⁓ So yeah, so just a very driven, driven entrepreneur. think my father, I heard my father over say to a friend of his one day, Dan will either be flat broke or he’ll be a multimillionaire, but either way he’s going to keep going. So that’s, that’s who I am.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (01:50)

Have you ever wondered what really makes an investor say yes? Is it the idea, the founder, or something less tangible such as conviction? I’m Di Gillett and welcome to the Power Of Women podcast. And what I love about this platform is the opportunity to showcase and celebrate the strength, resilience, and achievements of women from all walks of life. And joining me today is Dan Copsey.

 

And as you’ve already heard, is an Australian entrepreneur. He’s an investor and group CEO of TMSPC, which oversees a portfolio of advertising agencies, hospitality ventures, and not-for-profit initiatives. Dan’s coordinated more than 10 businesses, serving as an advisor to numerous founders and executives. And he championed social impact through projects like Partners in Progress Foundation and the Health CoLab.

 

He’s passionate about resilience, work-life balance, and building businesses for good. And with so many founders looking to scale or secure investment, Dan’s insights into what it takes to make a founder investable couldn’t be more timely. Dan Copsey, welcome to the Power Of Women podcast.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (03:10)

I am privileged to be here. I very, very privileged to be here. I’ve been looking forward to this for a couple of weeks now ever since when I started talking.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (03:20)

Thank

 

you. Brilliant. Before we dive into investing and scaling, you’ve built and co-founded and invested multiple ventures. So what landed you in that entrepreneurial space in the first place? Was it that line your father said?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (03:38)

My father said that many years after I started all my multiple ventures. I think some people are born to work for people and then some people just aren’t made to work for people and they need to be blazing their own trail, so to speak. And I think that’s where I’ve landed. Although I’ve spent the earlier part of my career

 

you know, working for other founders and their businesses. I always found that within those roles that I really treated the business like it was my own. And I really, you know, and that was where my work ethic developed. But I think being an entrepreneur, someone asked me this a couple of weeks ago, what does being an entrepreneur means? You and I just said freedom. That’s it. It’s freedom. ⁓

 

You talk about work-life balance. I call myself semi-retired at the moment. I have a country of happiness and more time outside mowing the lawns than anything else. So, ⁓ but, just that once it’s very hard to build a business and it’s very hard to build successful businesses. And I tell you, it’s very hard to build multiple successful businesses. But once you get into that rhythm and once you once you have those wins,

 

And once you start building, it’s very addictive. It is very addictive and what it can do for you, your lifestyle. And it’s not, I’m not talking about making millions of dollars or anything like that, but what it does create for you within your life is, I don’t think you can replicate that anywhere else. And it allows you to really chart your own goal. I was listening to Simon Sinek this morning in an interview he was doing with a comedian.

 

And Simon says his works all about what the goal is at the end, not so much the journey. And he finds a lot of people focus on the journey and they get to the end bit and they realize it was the wrong goal. So I really, I really like that. And I really like that being able to work that goal backwards. You know, like you should do in wealth planning or business, a business plan or anything else. Why shouldn’t you do that in your life too? So I think that if you do that, and that’s, that’s why being an entrepreneur and

 

and doing what I do, you know, it allows me to do all that and that’s what I really enjoy and why I’ve ended up here.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (06:06)

Dan, had ⁓ another entrepreneur, Mandy Gunzberger, the podcast last year and she has scaled five business successfully and sold a couple of those on. And she tells the story of she then after selling one of her

 

more recent businesses went back to the role of employee and she was fired three times. Shocked the first two times, not shocked the third time. Do you think entrepreneurs make good employees or are they wired differently?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (06:38)

I think the real entrepreneurs are wired differently. was once told, I’ve been told by several ⁓ director, know, highly placed sort of director friends of mine that I’m unemployable ⁓ to them because they would need a team around just to manage me. So, ⁓ but I guess that’s the thing though, like, you you think about just the Australian economy alone, where would the Australian economy be without entrepreneurs?

 

you know, entrepreneurs who want to go out and start businesses and even if it’s just as small as a small lawn mowing business or a makeup business or something like that, that’s an entrepreneur that is creating a macro economy that might be employing someone, it might be employing someone who necessarily couldn’t be employed anywhere else, you ⁓ I think, you know, one of the big things that was really learned over the last, I don’t know,

 

Even I mean not just through the pandemic but prior to the pandemic it was already starting to change, know, the flexibility in the workplace and things like that. You know, I think, you know, big corporates struggle to they say they want to give that balance but they struggle with it, think. So just a rigid framework when you get the smaller entrepreneurs, most of our employees in two of our businesses, you know, all work remotely.

 

So, you know, and I don’t really want to know when someone’s got a doctor’s appointment and I don’t want to know when someone’s going to take the kids to school, pick the kids up, go and do it. Go and do it. As long as the work’s getting done and the clients are happy and everything like that and the bills are getting paid, then I’m happy.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (08:18)

I think there’s a nimbleness in the entrepreneurial business compared to corporate too. mean, corporations spend hours and hours around boardroom tables strategizing and it takes a long time to get any inertia to move things on. I think that the speed of entrepreneurial business is really quite contagious if that’s your thing. ⁓

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (08:41)

100

 

% correct and it’s one of the hardest things to keep within your business as you grow it and as you scale and you become bigger it’s one of the hardest things is to be able to keep that nimbleness and that you know that level of productivity and whatever else you want to call it know that fast action and being able to action things

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (09:01)

It’s the magic of what made them great and then the scale and all the operational processes come in and it loses what was the whole point in the first place.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (09:13)

And I think you can get, well, in my opinion, excuse me, you can get too big. And that’s not for me. mean, we have quite a large number of head count across all our businesses, but I don’t want to be this hugely global corporation where I don’t know who’s working within my business and what skillset they are and what footy team they’re bearing for. That to me is quite important to be able to talk to all our employees on each level.

 

And I think that proves in itself too, we have some very long tenured employees, we have staff that have been with us ⁓ since the beginning and they’re still with us. So I think that speaks volumes in itself.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (09:56)

Yeah. So what lessons stand out the most in terms of getting a startup off the ground?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (10:03)

Don’t say yes to everything. I think that’s one mistake that a lot of entrepreneurs ⁓ make. They say yes to everything, ⁓ which I think in the end, it’s very early. It’s very easy for me to say that now being established and having clients and everything like that. And I can pick and choose the type of clients that we want to chase or we want to work with and things like that. And it’s not as easy in the early days. But I think selling your soul. ⁓

 

to a client and over delivering in the early days can really hurt you ⁓ over the long term because that expectation is set and then your worth is not what it should be ⁓ and then you struggle to upsell based on that and whatnot. So I think saying yes and it’s a mistake we made right in the start because we were keen to get every client we could ⁓ and get every little bit of revenue at the door. So we were happy to say yes to anyone and I think

 

looking back on it now, there’s probably about 10 clients that I wouldn’t have taken on again, ⁓ just because of certain circumstances and stuff like that. I think saying yes to people, ⁓ think it needs to be a very considered approach. Stick to your guns, stick to your worth, stick to your values. I think that’s pretty important in those early days, I think. ⁓ And if you can do that, it’s like ⁓ working through a bad economy. If you can work through a bad economy and

 

and hold your business and bring it out the other side, you’re going to be much stronger for it on the other side.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (11:34)

Yeah, I think that’s right. So having worn the hat of both founder and investor, how’s that shaped your view on how you assess opportunities today?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (11:47)

So we always look at the founder first. When I say we, I’m talking about myself and Alex and Adam, my business partners, but we always look at the founder first and what type of person or people they are. And I think the biggest misconception around entrepreneurship and founders and starting a business and everything like that over the last

 

10 years has been this hustle culture. And the hustle culture of, you you having to wake up at 5 a.m. and have a cold blunge and, you know, and then grind all day and things like that. I’m like…

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (12:27)

I’m going to blame you guys for that.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (12:29)

Yeah,

 

well, that’s fine. That’s fine. That’s fine. You know, and look, I have a sauna and I enjoy sauna and what I’m not a plunge for a cold plunge, but it’s not it’s not, you know, this hustle culture that is is brought in into entrepreneurship is really distracting, I think, to what, you know, founders and the true the true core of a founder and what they should be like. So I always, you know, I like to

 

you know like to invest and we like to work with honest people, transparent people ⁓ I don’t want to know and I don’t need to know on your socials that you got up at 5am and and did a cold plunge and a run and then you and then you did your emails that’s I don’t to me to me that’s you know can be can be very off-putting yeah so we looked like to look at the really the the who the people are who the person and what their background is you know

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (13:23)

How do you do that due diligence, Dan? How do you actually get to know them?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (13:27)

You speak to them. You speak to them. I won’t invest in business. We won’t go near a business. We have two very core principle frameworks that we work around when we invest. One is that we need to be able to add ourselves as a group, need to be able to add value to the business. We don’t like to be a passive investor. We like to be involved. And depending on what the startup or the business requires, we like to be able to fill a role and add value where we can.

 

So we don’t like to just throw money at things and then sit back and let someone else do it. We want to make sure that we can be part of the team and add some value to the journey if we can. And then two, it’s all about the founder. If we can’t sit down and like I said, I like to say break bread with the founder and have a meal, have a drink, have a beer, whatever it may be, and really chat and really get to know who they are, their family, you know.

 

where they’ve come from, know, what sort of upbringing or those things all, all, you it does, it does, you know, it really does. And I think not a lot of people sit down and actually get into the nitty gritty of it. It’s great that you might have the next AI startup, whatever it is, but you know, what’s your family like? You know, do you have children? know, to me, to me, you know, that’s, you know, and I don’t want to know why you want to

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (14:29)

love you a lot.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (14:53)

you know, gender, stereotypia at all, but anything like that. But like, you know, a woman who has three children and also is involved in the startup, to me is a very worthwhile risk to take on investment business if she can do all of that. You know,

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (15:10)

Juggle all of that,

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (15:12)

⁓ You just go back and you look at, I like to term you coming from good stock. I like to know what people’s parents are like, what their family was like, things like that. You meet a lot of people who, I mean, I came from very middle class. My mom was a teacher, my father was a police, I have two brothers, and they’re quite successful in their own rights, both of them.

 

⁓ We had good values instilled in us. We all had law mowing jobs or paper delivery jobs early on in life. We all worked at Safeway back in the early days and whatnot. ⁓ My mom came from the country, so she brought a lot of good country value with her and her bigger family. My dad was a policeman, so he had all that sort of…

 

respect the law and everything like that, which I think is very important. you know, I would like to think that I’m, you know, a good investment for ⁓ a potential ⁓ investor. And I like to sort of go around and try and find people like that behind great ideas, because I think, you know, the other ones that are investors, sorry, entrepreneurs will make mistakes, business people will make mistakes, money will be lost. ⁓ Startups won’t get off the ground and everything like that. But I think

 

if it’s all done with good intentions, with the right people, I think that gives the best opportunity to get off the ground. And we’ve lost money on investments and that happens as part of the journey.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (16:48)

Yeah, and I would say equally to an entrepreneur to be doing the due diligence back on the people that they’re looking to get into bed with. And I say that whether you’re a candidate going through an employment process to join an organization and people complain about how many times they have to meet or how many people they have to meet. And I say that’s actually the good scenario. You want to be able to lift the lid.

 

and get to know who you’re getting in bed with. I think all of that works both ways and it’s critical that it works both ways.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (17:23)

It’s 100%. And you know, knowing your background day and you know, I was listening to you on the James Stewart podcast, you know, the other morning to like, you know, how you how you have to operate in that space. And we have a recruitment agency, the good crowd, and Ben and Arby and the team that run that they spend a lot of time making sure that you know, the candidate knows who they’re interviewing for and vice versa and things like that, because you can’t just mash these people together and hope it all works on paper, it’s not going to work because a lot of

 

synergies there and you know I’ve had the same thing employing people over the years you know we’ve got to make sure that we’re bringing the right person ⁓ into the ecosystem, into the culture that we’ve built or that we’re trying to build you know and it’s you know it’s like trying to you know put a puzzle together at the entire time but that’s the same yeah like you know any founder out there needs to be doing the research on the investors because a lot of different type of investors out there too you know.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (18:23)

Some might want to invest to build and some might want to lean it down to sell it at a maximum profit and that looks very different.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (18:32)

PE companies, private equity, want to come in and flip around, turn around. They’ll be looking over your shoulder the entire time. They want to take a lot of equity off the table. Especially when you’re in that very early stage, founding, you want some very founder friendly ⁓ investment terms. ⁓ And you’re probably not going to find that through a PE company, but you will find that through like a high net worth individual who looks at it goes, hey, this is a great idea. Yeah, I’m keen to give you some money, but I also want to value, I can bring you my networks here and I can help you with this and help you with that.

 

and not take a lot of equity off the table because I know if it gets to going where it needs to go then that little bit of equity they get at start will be worth much more down the track anyway.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (19:13)

Yeah,

 

that’s right. So in balancing sort of burnout and balance, probably two things entrepreneurs really do struggle with because the hard yards to get something off the ground and particularly if you’re passionate about it and it’s your baby, you’re inclined to really get into the weeds. What’s your experience taught you though about being sustainable on an ongoing and longer term?

 

on the basis of energy and output and commitment.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (19:44)

First of all, have a good partner. Whether you have a good wife, a good husband, you need a good partner and they need to understand what you’re doing. I’m very lucky in the fact that my wife was very understanding and she’s been along for the journey, the highs and the lows. And she’s still here today, which is amazing. you know, she’s, we don’t have children, but she’s, you know, she has her own sort of high pressure corporate job herself. So, you know, to,

 

to coincide that with the journey that I, and I’m not just taking myself on it, I’m taking her on it with me. So, to be part of that. ⁓ The other thing that I learned along the way is ⁓ you need to look after yourself physically. That is one of the biggest things that ⁓ I learned along the way. I think, suddenly enough, I you and I used to, I still train with Will, I believe you used to train with Will.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (20:40)

used to change with Will, yeah, not anymore. I’m in the old people’s gym now. what I call Kesa, no offence to Kesa, but I do call it

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (20:50)

We

 

should be there as well. But anyway, ⁓ so but we’ll one thing will will taught me in those ⁓ in the early days of training with him is, is he’s not so much about getting in there to move weights for the sake of moving weights, it was to get in there to move your body and get your mind going. And that was, you know, if a good a really good gym session or run or walk or whatever it may be physical exercise, right?

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (21:13)

You’ve got to build it into your schedule. It’s a non-negotiable.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (21:17)

Yeah,

 

after, So I, I, I do, I train three times a week just in the gym. Nothing crazy. Yeah. Yeah. I also walk an average of 12,000 steps a day, but I build that.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (21:23)

As

 

⁓ on the same track Dan, it’s exactly same. But weight training and resistance training is an absolute must, particularly as we get older. And mentally it opens up your mind after you leave your desk or whatever meetings you’ve been in.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (21:47)

Yeah, and the third thing that I found out of my journey too is just be careful around alcohol, alcohols, even if you’re just a social drinker, you know, it just, can vary, it can give you a lot of brain fog. And people don’t notice that. you know, I remember at the start of 2020 before we even knew what the pandemic was, I actually

 

made a New Year’s resolution to give up drinking for the year. Because I just had this inkling that 2020 was going to be a big year for me, for my business, everything like that. So I’m like, you know what, I don’t want that distraction. So I gave up drinking. Well, it was fantastic. And everyone just thought it was, how can you not be drinking? We’re all sitting at home doing nothing for that entire year. How can you not be drinking and things like that?

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (22:30)

What did that feel like?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (22:42)

Um, I just, I, the clarity that it gives you was unbelievable. I wasn’t a drinker beforehand. You know, I’d go out to dinner, we’d have a bottle of wine, you know, whatever. I’ve never been a big beer drinker, I might have a bottle of wine or a cocktail or whatever it may be. But I did notice after that year, um, after 2020, um, when I did start, you know, I’ll pick up drinking and that it had reduced right down. It reduced right down to the fact that I hardly drink now.

 

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (23:12)

And it’s not until you take something out that you know, and I know I’ve done much the same and it’s only the occasional drink in a social setting and the wine industry is probably struggling with a lot of people making the same decision though because we’re not drinking at home or drinking as much.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (23:33)

We see that through the pubs that we’ve been involved in over the journey into like, you know, the intake of alcohol has dropped considerably.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (23:39)

As an investor, you subtly looking at all of these things in, so I mean, I, I think going out to dinner, yeah, cause I think going out to dinner is never just going out to dinner. think, you know, you’re, you’re clearly being assessed in that process of how you handle yourself. Is, that not the case?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (24:00)

I look for the party bit. I look for the party bit because the party bit, you know, I’ve seen that over my journey, you know, I spent my early 20s and whatnot in nightclubs and as everyone else did, you can tell things and tell those things about people. And I want to make sure that people are asking for money or for investment for the right reasons too, not that it’s going to.

 

fuel a lifestyle over here and what not. And I think that’s regardless of the lifestyle that fuels if it’s drugs or alcohol or, you know, fast cars or whatever. think there’s a there’s a time to have all that. But, you know, I think you need to show you being respectful and transparent with the money that’s been given to you to run a business. like I’ve seen so many insolvencies over the last three or four years, businesses that have gone into administration or liquidation.

 

And you see the amount of wages that directors are paying themselves and tax bills that they’re running up. I’m just, my mind boggles at some of that. the businesses that are two or three years old and the directors are taking $250,000 a year out. Plus there’s a Tesla in there. It’s unbelievable.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (25:13)

I started with the wrong raisin.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (25:15)

Exactly, exactly. I mean, I sat on $50,000 a year for the first seven years, if not more. So, you you’re getting into it for the wrong reasons, I think.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (25:27)

Okay. Well coming up, we’re going to talk about the gender divide in the startup world and what’s shifting it and what isn’t and why most investable founders typically don’t look like the stereotype.

 

If you’re loving the Power of Women podcasts, be sure to jump onto our YouTube channel and hit that subscribe button to ensure you never miss an episode. I’m talking with Dan Copsey, entrepreneur, investor and advocate of women in business. Dan, let’s talk about the gender divide in entrepreneurship. From where you sit as an investor, what do you see as the biggest challenges?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (26:10)

Factful there’s more male founders out there than female founder. Yeah, that’s just how it is and you know, right wrong or indifferent. That’s just how it is. I think My advice to I’ve done some work I’ve do a lot of work with female founders and and even just in advisory positions and probably the the ladies that I you know that I’m just advising for and I have one particular

 

company that I won’t mention who they are but they’re fantastic these two ladies right they are in the HR space they have one has two children the other one has three children one of them her husband’s another founder and he’s going to running a tech company and the other one they’ve a lot going on and I just look at these two and I go you are very intelligent super intelligent very driven right but lack confidence in a room and

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (26:56)

going on.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (27:09)

And I look around and I just like, guys, I would listen to what you guys have to say all day long every day. think you’re both fantastic. Like, and I know other people would once you get out there. I really think sometimes, you know, I just it’s a it’s a real lack of confidence sometimes, which but then I started looking at it go, why is that? So maybe but then I was I was in ⁓ a networking group with these with one of these ladies.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (27:11)

extraordinary.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (27:40)

And I looked around at the rest of the group and this lady, she probably very similar age to me, know, sort of mid forties. And then I’ll look around at the rest of the group and they were like quite older than us, you know, and a lot of a lot very male dominated. And I’m like, right. And I just saw how those sort of blokes acted in that scenario. They were talking over everyone over their opinions and this and that, whatever. And then you just see ⁓ the this lady

 

⁓ just sort of, you know, just sit there and listen and just disappear into it. I thought you’ve, you’re more intelligent than these guys and you’ve got more to say than these guys. These guys are just verbal diarrhea almost like coming up with what they’re saying and nothing original, no original thoughts and whatnot. I you’ve got all this you should. And I actually pulled her aside afterwards. I said, you have to interject yourself in there and just really, you know, get the elbows out and push through. And I said, it’s really sad that you have to do that.

 

But that’s how it is, right? You’ve got my support and I’m sure you have other people’s support. But, you know, and then I watched this same lady in another environment where the general age was probably a lot lower than our age. you know, not Gen Z, but sort of that millennial in between there. I’m actually millennial. I was 1981, but I call myself Gen X because I just amused.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (29:02)

I’m actually a boomer Dan, but there you go.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (29:06)

I like the music generation X is better, so I’ll try to do anyway.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (29:10)

Well,

 

I’m on the cusp.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (29:13)

But

 

there are millennials in this group and it was funny because she really got into that group and could really, you know, and she really dominated, but was part of the conversation.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (29:22)

But

 

she felt intimidated generationally.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (29:25)

Yeah, and I just thought is this this is this a thing and and it makes a lot of sense like when you go back and I mean listening to some of your stories the other day with James Stewart like you know you’ve probably had some of that and I listened to it was funny that same morning I listened to your podcast I listened to Mark Boris interview Ida butt rose and

 

Yeah, it’s great. And she’s like no nonsense lady who but she’s she’s been shaped like that over the years of dealing with, you know, the Packers and whatnot is older.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (29:58)

circumstances start to create the character so maybe maybe what you’re observing is somebody who just hasn’t had enough runs on the board yet to shape her

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (30:07)

Yeah, but you see it around a lot. ⁓ know, and I know we’re going to talk about Jess and Bri in a moment too, those two ladies are fantastic. Like, back those guys every day of the week. They are just unbelievable. it’s almost, ⁓ it would be very threatening to be in a room with them if you are sort of like ⁓ anyone, female or male, that was sort of, you know,

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (30:34)

I think a very strong, confident and then a tall female is more intimidating to me than any male could ever be.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (30:44)

100 % 100 % % Yeah, yeah. Look, I just, you know, I want to support the founder, male or female based on who they are and what they’re bringing to the table. But a lot of the time, you know, when we do come across female founders, you really look at them, know, are they a mother? What else have they got going on in life? Because females carry the majority of the household with them.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (30:46)

always felt that way.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (31:14)

you know, traditionally, like always have, right, you know, ⁓ you know, if they have children, they’re dealing with, you know, if they’ve got three children, they’re dealing with three sets of emotions, three sets of personalities, not to mention their husband, you know, add a fourth one into the mix. So they’re carrying all that. Then, you know, there’s a lot of things to do in the household and whether the household is split in the mail helps with, you know, the housework or whatever, however it looks, you know, they’re bearing a lot more.

 

Yeah. And you just think, and you want to do a startup on the back of that, like 100 % I’m backing you every day of the week. Cause you know, like anyone who has, I think you’re slightly insane. That’s great. Cause you need a little bit of that to be an entrepreneur. Let’s go. Let’s say I’m on board with that every day of the week. I it’s just fantastic. I mean, I watch it. My mom wasn’t an entrepreneur, but she, she raised three boys. She worked full time the entire time. Um, and you know, everything around my dad, you know, he was

 

like I mean he was always, my dad was very good. was always around the house. Yeah but he did a lot of shift work and very stressful you know and like you know he was in the highway patrol and whatnot so a lot of there’s a lot of trauma issues and whatnot that he would have experienced every time so a lot to bring home too you know into the home environment and then for the mother to sort of like you know navigate all of that too so there’s lot going on but then I thought well my mom could have probably run a business very easily.

 

on top of everything I actually did.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (32:41)

Maybe that’s where your genes have come from.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (32:45)

I’m

 

dead. But you know, it’s, I just, yeah, I just, I just think, ⁓ just, sometimes you just, and I see them, I see it more often than I would like, these very intelligent entrepreneurial women, and they’re just not putting themselves out there as much as they should, I think.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (33:04)

I’ve had a number of podcast conversations about this. I’ve got, we’ve just done one with with Shori Archibald and I did one at the end of last year with Carly Lyon and it is a common point that so many people are good at putting their brand or their business out there but not themselves. So it is a very, very common point. But I mean we talk about

 

⁓ female founders, the difficulties in raising capital and the reluctance they find at various turns of individuals investing in them. But conversely, what strengths or differentiators do you see women bring to the table that they should be putting forward in their pitch or in their deck or just the whole

 

storytelling of why invest in me as a female founder.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (34:04)

Well, I think just to go back on what we just talked about, like I wouldn’t laugh if I saw a female founders resume and says I have three kids and this is what I do with these children and that’s a job. That’s a ⁓ part of my career. Like, because I would just go, there are some serious life skills in there that you are developing and putting to use. Right. So that’s a whole job and career. So, you know, I would, you know, I would encourage, I would encourage female founders to talk about, to talk about that sort of stuff.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (34:24)

That’s job one.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (34:34)

being a mother, being, you know, all those sort of things that they have to do. That’s the life skills that you developed through during doing that is unbelievable. And so I think that’s one of the big things that people don’t think about when they look at females.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (34:48)

So bring the whole person to the table.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (34:50)

Bring

 

the whole person to the table because that is what essentially well from where we sit that’s what we would invest in. That whole person. You know bring it to the table who you are right because there’s going to be times right when and I’ve seen it there’s going to be times when it does get too much right you know kids might be acting up or there might be a problem with the kids or whatever and everything it’s can be extremely overwhelming right and you’ve got you’re going to have moments where it gets too much right.

 

But you need to, the team around you needs to know like, hey, that’s, I’m not just here being an entrepreneur and a founder. I’ve also got this whole career going at home that I’m dealing with from, you know, the time I stop here and go there. And as an entrepreneur and a founder, especially the way we deal across the globe at the moment, we’re a very global community now, you know, there’s no time to switch off.

 

being an entrepreneur, there’s no time to switch off. you know, people are trying to get at you all days of the week, know, and technology allows Adam and whatever else. So, you know, just to see these women go and manage that and manage home, you’re just like, wow, that’s, you know, it’s unbelievable. So and you just have to, I think as a, as a male, right, involved with these female type founders, these female founders, you have to be very supportive of that. You have to recognize that.

 

and you can’t go, oh, what do mean? You’ve got to go home and deal with the kids or can’t someone else do that or can’t you get a nanny or whatever? You’ve got to be supportive of that. If you don’t realize that when you’re going in, then you’re in the wrong investment working whatever relation.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (36:27)

I think conversely the entrepreneur needs to put it all on the table up front because you can go in and declare everything, it’s very difficult to try and add it in after the event because that looks like you’ve been withholding. So I think laying it bare from the outset is the only way to go.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (36:48)

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Look, you know, I work with a founder at the moment. She’s a founder in the construction space. She’s an amazing lady. ⁓ And she and her partner ⁓ have just had a little baby. So they’ve got a little baby girl. And she’s working in an industry which is so male dominated and so skewed against her from the start. It’s unbelievable. ⁓ And then she’s also a mother.

 

And she got a very supportive partner. He’s fantastic, right? But he he’s not the entrepreneurial drive that she is, you know, and I just I watch her go and I you are unbelievable. You’re unbelievable. And when I first met her, she was like she’d had a bad day and I met her through a networking group and she walked in and she sort of just unloaded on the entire group. And I remember grabbing her at the dinner afterwards and say, hey, don’t give up. Don’t give up. I said the reason why they are treating you like that is because they’re scared of you. That is it.

 

They’re scared of you and how you operate and how quickly you will make them all look silly. That’s just that’s just the truth. And I’ve been in that industry. been in the construction space and I’ve seen what female entrepreneurs and how quickly they could dominate that space. Right. And said, you’re you’re copying a lot because people are scared of you in that space. Don’t give up. And then we formed a very good friendship. Yeah. And I was just like, you know, just don’t give up. Whatever you do, don’t give up because then they win. Right. And it’s you know, that’s

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (38:07)

Good observation. ⁓

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (38:15)

And it can be a game for a lot of people. don’t realize, they don’t realize to, you know, when you get those male dominated industries and you start putting a lot of pressure on a female, especially a female founder, she has to go home and she’s got to deal with that. But then she might have children. So she’s got to deal with all that. Like it’s a huge emotional load to take on, you know, professionally, personally, the whole life.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (38:38)

Yeah, it’s good training ground, Some of those badly behaved blokes in the workplace might be a walk in the park.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (38:46)

It’s a great skill to have. It’s a great skill to have, you know. So, you know, they become unbelievable negotiators because they go from negotiating with a four-year-old in the morning to negotiating with a 44-year-old in the afternoon.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (38:59)

But there might not be a lot of difference sometimes.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (39:01)

I’ll win both those arguments, I think with a cookie. So yeah, it’s just like, you know, I just, there are so many, so many wonderful, super intelligent, super driven female founders, especially in the Australian ecosystem, especially in Melbourne, right? That I don’t think get the exposure that the kudos. Yeah, it’s amazing, you know.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (39:28)

And you’re working with a few of those at the moment. You’re working with a couple of powerhouse female founders, those behind Frank Boddy and Willow and Blake. What did they get right that other female founders could learn from?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (39:44)

They just never took no for an answer. two, they are fantastic. They’re like yin and yang. Jess is unbelievable. She’s, you know, the penultimate out there, you know, found a leader. ⁓ know, she’s on panels. She has a great network and she’s out there and people, you know, listen to her and value what she has to say. then,

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (40:08)

Distinct

 

to the woman who wasn’t confident to speak up, Jess has been visible.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (40:13)

Yeah, correct. then, Bri, Bri is a bit more introverted. She’s probably, you know, she’s the operational brain behind everything and works in behind the scenes. But again, those two have developed such a following. And I’ve watched them, I watched them, I watched them run an event recently, you know, it was fantastic. And you know, they have the ear of some wonderful, extremely powerful

 

people, you know, they had the editor in vogue at their recent event and she was just hanging off every word that they had to say. you ⁓ know, they just, you know, when the opportunity came to invest in their business and be a director alongside them, at first thing I said to them, when we sort of jumped on our first zoom to sort of all meet each other properly and have a chat and, you know, sort of get to know each other.

 

You know, it was all about, you know, I wanted to know about families and whatnot and their partners and what they all do and everything and their children and everything like that. And then I said to them, because they asked me, why do you want to be involved? said, why wouldn’t I want to be involved? Why wouldn’t I want to be involved? Look at you two. You’re like, you’re unbelievable.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (41:27)

So it was people first that attracted you as an investor versus the idea?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (41:31)

Yep, yep, 100%. Look, I’ve been around a long time. Their work speaks for itself. And I think not what they touch turns to gold, but I know they know how to work a product very well and get it to market. know, Frank Body started off as a case. ⁓ They started Frank Body as a case study for Willow and Blake. Frank Body turned into a hundred million dollar business. They started it just because they didn’t have any. They wanted to get a lot more work in that.

 

genre for Willow and Blake, but they didn’t actually have any runs on the board yet. So they went and started a small, you know, know, business and turned into a hundred million dollar business. mean,

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (42:11)

Yeah, well, that’s a hell of a side hustle, isn’t it?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (42:15)

This is

 

last side hustle and you just watch them and you know, they have they have they both have both have two children. I’m pretty sure they both have two children. Yeah. You know, they have fantastically supportive husbands ⁓ and you know, but they make time for their family and they make time for ⁓ their professional side of things. And one of the first things I did with Jess early days is right. Cool. When can I not contact you? When is family time? Tell me when family time is so can respect that.

 

And she’s like, oh yeah, cool. is great. Cool. Well, I’ll just have a little note here and I, you if I’m trying to get hold of you or whatever, and it’s family time, then I’m not going to bug you. So, you know, cause that’s, um, I think that’s very important. Like I said earlier, you got to respect that you’re getting involved with, you know, um, female founders like that. need to respect that they have this other career going on outside.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (43:05)

So I think in listening to that Dan, my takeaway for anybody listening is you’ve got to find a marriage between yourself and your investor because if you’re the opposite who’s on the phone at 6 in the morning and 10 at night, you’re probably not the right investor for the woman with family life and boundaries as well.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (43:34)

Correct, yeah. An investor-founder relationship is almost like another personal relationship. You need to find the right person, you need to find the right team. They need to add value to your life, just like a husband or a wife would add value to their partner’s life. You’ve got to work well together. That’s exactly how an investor relationship should work. Don’t take on the investor just because they’ve got money.

 

Bring an investor on because they value what you’re doing, they value the type of person you are, and they can add value to what you’re doing, not just money, not just

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (44:08)

Yeah, that’s important. So for those who’ve already launched a business, are the key signals that a business is ready to scale? And then how do you know when it’s time to go out and seek that external investment?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (44:24)

I think it all works down to the growth plans. We talked a little bit before Simon Sinek and how he looks at the goal and then works back from that. A lot of people work the other way around. I think to really pinpoint those points in your startup where you want it to, you know, this is the next stage. This is, I’m going to hire X amount of head count here and so on and so forth. think to have those goals clearly set out ⁓ is really, really important.

 

It’s depending on the product and the service and whatnot. It’s really hard to know when to scale. mean, like, you know, I take a lot of my businesses. I want to go from zero to hero very quickly. ⁓ And it’s all in our game in the agency world, like recruitment and advertising. It’s all about revenue. But the models changed considerably. Like we’re doing we’re doing a lot more revenue now with a lot less headcount, you know, and that’s not because of AI or anything like that. It’s just because we’re being smarter.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (45:22)

Times

 

have changed.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (45:23)

Yeah, and that’s just it. So to have those revenue points and be prepared, I think a lot of people are too scared to take on big opportunities as well. Like, know, fake it till you make it. You know, that’s, you know, I think, you know, if Alex and I and Adam and the team sort of hadn’t had that motto early days, fake it till you make it, we probably wouldn’t be where we are today. We said yes to a lot of things we probably shouldn’t have said yes to, but we made it work behind the scenes.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (45:53)

how to do it afterwards. Yeah, and I think that’s a classic entrepreneurial trade. mean, the opportunities there, take it and work out the mechanics after the event.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (46:03)

Yeah, yeah. So, you know, those big opportunities can come on. I think you just got to you got to know when the right opportunities in front of you, because that’s one that’s going to make you scale, you know, and take you to the next level. And then you scale along the way. Scaling is not all about just putting on headcount. It’s not always about just getting new clients and whatnot. It’s, you know, it’s about, you know, making sure that underlying operations in your business are working well, know, the finances working well, you’ve got enough funding, you know, if you want to take on investment.

 

Take on investment in the right frame of mind and the with the right attitude. I think don’t just take on investment, you know, because, you know, someone so wants to invest in you or you want to take some money off the table. What is that angle? Are you building whatever you’re building to sell it? Right. Cool. Well, then you might take some money off on the table along the way to sort of de-risk yourself. ⁓ But there’s a lot of sharks in the water out there, especially at the moment.

 

You know, they’ll want to take a lot of equity off you very quickly and people can get really lost in the fact that, cool, we’re half a million dollars, but maybe you’re losing 75. Yeah, So just find founder-friendly terms. That’s, know, someone who doesn’t want to take a lot of equity at the start or they want convertible notes or they’re going to…

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (47:10)

Thanks for

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (47:23)

sweat equity is a really good thing in the market at the moment we do a lot of that too rather than put cash in we’re putting services in so there’s a lot of that.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (47:31)

I always love that because I think that shows the intention from both sides.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (47:36)

That’s skin in the game, you know, for everyone and that’s important.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (47:39)

Yeah,

 

yeah, brilliant. Well, Dan, thank you so much because I think it’s a, it’s often a world that is unknown to somebody starting out a business and whilst they understand investment and is probably the next stage in knowing how to approach it is not necessarily something that’s in everybody’s direct playbook. So,

 

I’ve got a couple of rapid fire questions for you if I could to wrap up today. One word that defines a great founder.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (48:20)

Honest.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (48:22)

Love that. Biggest red flag in a pitch.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (48:25)

arrows that go up.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (48:27)

And the best piece of advice you’ve ever been given.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (48:36)

I’m going give you two here. So one was from an older gentleman that I know sort of family circles and he said to me early days, he goes, always be prepared to do every role in the business. Don’t hire someone until you absolutely necessarily have to be prepared to do every role in the business. And which has stuck with me a long way through my journey, which is kind of cool. And then the other one was you don’t know you’re getting bad advice until you get good advice. So always seek out the good advice.

 

And I think I think more of that is just make sure make sure you you’re not you’re not in a an echo chamber. Make sure you’re taking advice from lots of different angles and process it and you know because everyone’s going to be different. Everyone’s going to have different experiences going lonely on their own. you know some people just have their might have their little advisory board or table one person and that might not be the best advice. Go and seek out advice from everyone. You know and I think a true

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (49:33)

I think that’s life in general.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (49:35)

It is, yeah, and I like this is one thing I do like to hang my hat on is that if anyone reaches out to me for a coffee or a chat or wants to ask a question, I’m all ears for it because there people who did that for me early days and it’s all about returning the favor and I think if you’re a true entrepreneur and you’re true business person and you’ve been on that journey, if you’re not doing that at some point or later on in journey and trying to impart that knowledge backwards or help out, then I don’t think you earn the right to be a true entrepreneur. So you should always be willing to.

 

you up into the community.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (50:06)

Yeah brilliant. Dan thanks so much. If anybody wants to get in touch with you what’s the best way to reach out?

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (50:12)

LinkedIn, LinkedIn hit me up on LinkedIn. My the DMS always open come in. Yeah, as long as you’re not trying to sell me SEO from somewhere around the world. if you start off somewhere else, I’m all open to it.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (50:25)

They

 

clog up my email every day of the week.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (50:29)

Add me on LinkedIn. I’m in Melbourne and Sydney all the time, more than happy to catch up with anyone, jump on a Zoom. ⁓ The best part about what I do is meeting all the wonderful people. your network is your network, as they always say.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (50:43)

Yeah, brilliant. Well, Dan, thank you so much. think the world of business startups is the domain for females. think COVID was the breaking point that saw so many more emerge around the world. And this type of discussion hopefully is helpful for an individual who’s thinking about how you go from that initial embryonic idea and start to build a bigger picture of where you want to go. So thank you so much for joining us.

 

DAN COPSEY [Guest] (51:13)

Thank you for having me on. It’s been wonderful. And I just wanted to say I was humbled listening the other day to your journey on James’s podcast. Oh, thank It was a timing that I came up and I actually reached out to James and said that I was coming on yours and what a small world. But I think you’re doing a wonderful thing and keep up all the good work. think it’s people like you that help open up.

 

⁓ The ecosystem for those founders, and especially those female founders that might lack the confidence and stuff like that, you’re exposing worlds to them that they didn’t know was there. And I think it’s just great for the entrepreneurial community to have people like you putting your content out like this. So well done.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (51:59)

Thank you so much, Dan. Until next time.

 

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction: Navigating the Shark-Infested Waters of Investment

05:58 The Entrepreneurial Spirit: Freedom and Challenges

11:47 Assessing Founders: The Human Element in Investment

17:53 Balancing Act: Sustainability in Entrepreneurship

24:53 The Gender Divide in Entrepreneurship: Challenges and Insights

27:40 Navigating Gender Dynamics in Professional Spaces

30:34 The Role of Female Founders in Business

33:31 The Unique Strengths of Female Entrepreneurs

36:48 Balancing Family and Entrepreneurship

39:01 Learning from Successful Female Founders

44:00 Understanding Investment and Scaling Strategies

 

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Starting Over in Midlife: What’s Holding You Back?

Starting Over in Midlife: What’s Holding You Back?

Midlife isn’t a crisis — it’s an invitation.

So what’s holding you back?

In this episode of the Power Of Women Podcast, host Di Gillett sits down with Maz O’Connor, a woman who made the bold decision to sell everything in Australia and start a new life overseas. First in Bali and now India…in her 50’s. Her story is a reminder that reinvention isn’t about discarding who we’ve been. It’s about carrying our courage, resilience and experience into the next chapter.

You’ll hear:

  • Why midlife reinvention is about conviction, not crisis
  • How courage and clarity fuel personal growth after 50
  • Why financial independence is the foundation of women’s empowerment.

 

Key takeaways :

  • Start small: reinvention doesn’t have to mean selling everything.
  • Back yourself, especially when no one else is.
  • Create a strategy before you leap.
  • Surround yourself with women who’ve walked the path before you.
  • Courage as a quiet force that fuels big life shifts.

 

Maz said:

“Courage is that quiet voice that whispers—and that we ignore. But when we find stillness and finally listen, it gets louder.”

“I took a massive step and sold everything. It doesn’t have to be that big, but it does have to be intentional.”

“Reinvention isn’t about starting from scratch. It’s about starting with you.”

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction

14:53 Midlife Reinvention: Embracing Change

27:00 Empowering Women in Their Third Act

28:06 Mindset and Career Paths

29:35 Empowering Women Through Business

30:33 Navigating Ageism and Embracing Technology

33:45 Innovations in Wellness and AI

37:33 Living Intentionally and Building a Legacy

44:28 Courage and Reinvention in Midlife

51:08 Overcoming Fear and Building Financial Independence

 

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Women’s Healthcare Reimagined: A Revolutionary Approach

Women’s Healthcare Reimagined: A Revolutionary Approach

This was such an import episode from earlier in the year, we were compelled to replay it for you.

Women’s healthcare is broken and Hema Prakash is rebuilding it from the ground up.

Hema is the co-founder of Ponti Health, Australia’s first integrated women’s health clinic built on the principles of slow medicine, agency, and whole-woman care. With more than 25 years across technology, private equity and innovation, she brings systems thinking, cultural awareness, and lived experience to redefining menopause and midlife healthcare.

In this powerful conversation, Hema shares how decades in tech and private equity, a global upbringing, and her own perimenopause journey shaped the creation of Ponti Health – an integrated clinic reimagining women’s health through slow medicine, time-rich consultations, and a fiercely woman-centred model of care.

Hema challenges the medicalisation of menopause, exposes gaps in the Australian healthcare system, and lays out the truth: women have been underserved for too long. The revolution begins with giving women back their intelligence, agency, and time.

 

You’ll hear:

  • Menopause should be viewed as a transition, not a medical condition
  • How Ponti Health blends East, West, tech and time into a groundbreaking new model
  • Women need to prioritise their health and well-being
  • Financial independence is crucial for women in midlife
  • Self-care is essential for maintaining health and happiness and long-term wellbeing
  • The dangerously underfunded state of women’s health research
  • The leadership philosophy Hema lives by: humility, empathy and excellence
  • Intergenerational friendships can provide valuable wisdom.

 

Hema said:

“Ponti Health is the first of its kind in Australia.”

“Women need to be financially independent.”

“We need to support our researchers.”

Chapters:

00:00 The Journey of Hema Prakash: From Curiosity to Leadership

02:55 Founding Ponti Health: A New Era in Women’s Health

14:22 Navigating Male-Dominated Industries: Lessons in Humility and Learning

19:23 The Personal Journey: Understanding Menopause and Women’s Health

27:14 Challenging the Medicalisation of Menopause

38:33 The Importance of Self-Care and Prioritising Health

50:56 Legacy and the Future: Empowering Women in Midlife

 

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Your Midlife Reset: Strength, Vitality & Powerful At Any Age

Your Midlife Reset: Strength, Vitality & Powerful At Any Age

 

This episode is so powerful we are rerunning it to kick off your New Year’s resolution.

Your midlife reset: Strength, vitality & how to be powerful at ANY age.

Want to reinvent your body, health, and vitality at any age? This episode of the Power Of Women Podcast with Alison Cork MBE is a masterclass in midlife transformation and the evidence is irrefutable: it is never too late.

Alison is a London-based entrepreneur, author, broadcaster, and fierce advocate for women in business. She’s also rewriting the script on aging with her book Fit & Fabulous Over 50, a practical blueprint for reclaiming your strength, wellbeing, confidence, and energy.

In this dynamic conversation, Alison reveals the truth about nutrition, sustainable weight loss, the importance of strength training, and why midlife is not a decline, but a fabulous new chapter. She shares her personal health reset, the myths around quick fixes and sugar, and what women over 40 really need to know about brain health, metabolic changes, and longevity.

If you’re ready for your next chapter, this episode is the catalyst.

In this episode, we explore:

  • There is no quick fix for wellness; it requires commitment.
  • Mindset is crucial; it’s never too late to change your life.
  • Age should not define one’s capabilities or potential.
  • Weight training is crucial for women.
  • You cannot out train a bad diet; nutrition is key.

Chapters:

00:00 Introduction to Alison Cork: A Journey of Entrepreneurship

10:06 Championing Female Entrepreneurs

17:40 Rewiring Your Second Act: Fit and Fabulous Over 50

29:42 Transformation and Mindset: The Power of Change

39:09 Navigating Supermarket Choices

41:54 Cost of Living and Food Choices

44:03 Meal Planning and Budgeting

47:55 The Role of Exercise in Weight Loss

52:53 Embracing Body Confidence

54:22 The Importance of Weight Training for Longevity

59:01 Understanding Macronutrients

01:05:40 Mindset and Motivation for Change

 

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Website www.alisoncork.com

Instagram https://www.instagram.com/alisoncork_home/

 

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Entrepreneurial Insights: Building, Burning Out & Coming Back Stronger

Entrepreneurial Insights: Building, Burning Out & Coming Back Stronger

In this fast-paced and deeply honest conversation, I sit down with Mandi Gunsberger, five-time founder and visionary dealmaker behind Babyology and Nourish Travel. We explore what it really costs to build something extraordinary: the burnout, the identity traps, the pressure of keeping it all together and the courage it takes to stop, reset, and start again.

From founding a multi-million-dollar business to selling it and rediscovering herself through a year in Tuscany, Mandi shares powerful lessons on entrepreneurship, wellbeing, and the importance of connection over hustle. A masterclass in business growth, resilience, and the power of vulnerability, when success and self collide.

 

➡️In this episode, we explore:

The early lessons that shaped Mandi’s entrepreneurial drive

The fine line between ambition and exhaustion

How genuine connection beats traditional networking

The reality of burnout — and how to spot the signs early

What Tuscany taught her about slowing down to speed up

How Nourish Travel helps others prioritise wellbeing without guilt

 

This is more than a business conversation. It’s a blueprint for balance, resilience and redefining success on your own terms.

 

Mandi said:

“You’ve got to love the build.”

“You are enough even when you pause.”

“Asking for help is a strength.”

📖 Read the full transcript of this conversation here 👇

FULL TRANSCRIPT:

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (00:00)

I’m a serial entrepreneur and I’ve built five businesses over the last 25 years. I also believe that life is not linear and our lives are all full of twists and turns to teach us who we really are and give us power in this world. I believe ⁓ integrity.

 

Connection and ⁓ curiosity are my main values in life, those three things. And I’m happiest, I think, when I’m creating something meaningful, surrounding myself with really good people.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (00:34)

I’m Di Gillett and welcome to the Power of Women podcast. And what I love about this platform is the opportunity to showcase and celebrate the strength, resilience and achievement of women from all walks of life. And this is where real stories are told and where we remind you to never assume. We talk resilience, reinvention and breakthroughs and the moments that often don’t make the headlines but should.

 

So join the conversation and subscribe please wherever you listen to your podcast because that helps us amplify the message out there and be part of the power of women community. Have you ever thought about starting your own business? Today’s conversation is with Mandi Gunsberger, five-time founder, visionary dealmaker and powerhouse behind Babyology and Nourish Travel.

 

We’re going to talk about the real cost of entrepreneurship, which includes burnout, identity, and the pressure of holding it all together whilst building something truly extraordinary. It’s a fast-paced masterclass in business growth, connection, and the power of vulnerability. Mandi Goodensberger, welcome to the Power of Women podcast.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (01:51)

Thanks so much for having me, Di. I’m so excited to be here today and share all the good, the bad, and a lot of the ugly about building businesses and what that entails.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (02:03)

brilliant. So let the masterclass begin. You’ve, look, I don’t even know where to start because there’s a lot with it, Mandi, but you’ve built five businesses, you’ve raised three daughters, you’ve successfully sold on Australia’s largest parent media company, which was Babyology. Where does your entrepreneurial spirit come from?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (02:26)

Yeah, that’s an interesting question to start with and I’d have to say number one, it would be my dad. He was 100 % my person and he was a very different type of entrepreneur, I suppose, in the 70s and the 80s. He was an entrepreneur for necessity, and to put food on the table versus what a lot of us do now. So, you know, he owned a record company. He was a jewelry salesman. He was a clown at kids birthday parties. ⁓ I remember at the age of

 

five going on newspaper runs with him at 5am, know, where you’d throw the newspaper out the car and it would end up in someone’s front garden. So, you know, he was always hustling just for the next dollar to be able to feed us, you know, very middle class.

 

that I grew up in and so he had to do that but I feel like I’ve always hustled from a young age as well. ⁓ used to, well don’t know if that’s a hustle really, I used to steal money from the bank in Monopoly when I used to play that with my sister. That’s more illegal than.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (03:26)

Nope,

 

yeah, but it’ll be hustle.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (03:29)

No,

 

but I would have an auction in our room every week when we were kids and she was older than me and I would auction off both our toys to her and try and make a few bucks until mum found out what was going on. really from the age of 13, I worked in hairdressing salons. I worked in a bakery, you know, from 5am. I used to work in cafes or stock shelves at the supermarket. So I was always looking, you know, selling local cookies in the area and things like that. So I think that’s when it all started.

 

for me was in my teenage years and then moving over to San Francisco in my early 20s was just so incredibly eye-opening.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (04:08)

What did you do? What was that?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (04:10)

Oh,

 

was crazy. So I was able to somehow wangle myself a work visa, which is very, very hard to do from Australia to America. But I just finished uni. I was 22 years old. I moved out with my boyfriend and I worked in hotels. I worked in the Hilton, Hyatt and Intercontinental hotels, which was a crazy world to be in. And I think I managed to get there because it was dot com era. So, you know, lot of regular people leaving regular jobs in the Bay Area to go for the dot com where you’d go canoeing on a Friday.

 

there’d be fizzball in the break rooms and all that stuff. So it was actually a good time for me to wangle my way in and to…

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (04:47)

Very

 

Google, Mandi.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (04:49)

It was very Google. It was when all of that was just starting to happen. And you’d see 22 year olds over there driving a Ferrari, ordering a burger with a $600 bottle of wine from Napa. So I think I just really was like, wow, that’s really impressive. So when we moved back from San Francisco when I was 24, 25, I really had that entrepreneurial spirit in me.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (05:12)

Yeah, wow, great story. So with that in mind, what fuels you more? it the buzz of creating and scaling a business or is it the satisfaction of seeing the successful exit?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (05:26)

Oh gosh, 100 % they’re creating the business every single time. think, you know, the buzz of coming up with an idea, acting on it, working bloody hard for many years, you know, they’re not overnight successes by all means and turning it into something profitable that comes from that idea is just so rewarding. I mean, if you’re in it just for the exit in Australia, I think nowadays 10 % of startups, you know,

 

fail within the first year and 70 % fail within those next two to five years. So if you’re in it to be at that exit.

 

you know, 90 % it’s not going to happen. I think even higher if you’re a woman, to be honest. So a successful exit, while it is pure gold, it’s incredibly unlikely that you have that successful exit. So you’ve really got to love the build. You’ve got to love the drive. You’ve got to love working every second of every day to build something that you believe in. And I think, yeah, one of my incredible mentors, Jane Huxley, way back when actually taught me a very early how

 

you go into a new business idea while planning your exit. So it might never happen. But I think it’s worth thinking about when you build, like what you want it to look like. Do you want it to be a lifestyle business? Do you want to sell out of it? Do you want to stay on when someone buys it? You know, all those questions. Because I think that really affects ⁓ the way you build it. You know, determining how you set it up, if you take funding, who you take funding from along the way. So it does affect the final outcome.

 

So I do now when I launch something these days I do work backwards as to what does this look like in 10, 15, 20 years? Because that does really affect the way you run it but absolutely hands down I love the build. I love getting that first sale. I love you know when profit actually exceeds what it should be, what you thought it would be. Yeah, it’s never about the exit although it’s obviously very exciting. I did have one big exit but again five businesses one exit so. It happens all the time.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (07:28)

Yeah,

 

but that that hustle is is what you developed as a kid. mean, that’s the kid trading off your toys in the in the bedroom.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (07:38)

Definitely.

 

And especially for someone like me where all my businesses are not in a specific area, it’s literally sitting there and going, huh, someone else is not doing this. So for instance, coming back from San Francisco and being obsessed with those triangular scones that they had at Starbucks at the time and thinking I’m going to be the next Byron Bay cookie company because that’s not here yet. You know, so it’s, it’s any idea I come up with, I just launch myself into and see where it goes.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (08:04)

Yeah, and that’s a great visionary mindset to read what’s going on in the marketplace and be curious. And I love that attitude. So that’s pretty.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (08:14)

Absolutely, it’s about seeing what’s not around and then actually discovering why it’s not around. Maybe there’s a very good reason no one else has gone up against that company, but if there’s not, you just think, well, if I don’t do it, someone else might do it.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (08:26)

Yeah.

 

So you’ve developed a reputation as a relationship ninja and visionary deal maker. How did those tags come about?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (08:38)

.

 

⁓ Look, I think I’ve always been a people person from a very young age, like from a child, and then moving into hospitality as my first career as well led me to understand and know a lot about people. And I think when I look at that and the way partnerships work, I look at partnerships as being a lot like great relationships. So they’re really about the people behind them and building those connections rather than, ⁓ you know, the paperwork and what goes into it.

 

I think for me trust and respect is a big one. So actually finding people who care about each other’s success is huge in this space. ⁓ Having shared values is another big one. It’s not just about the goals, it’s about alignment with one another. And honest communication often when you meet people or you’re trying to work on partnerships, ⁓ you know, it’s not working out and it’s about having those difficult conversations or working out how to pivot or going your own way at an early stage.

 

and realising it wasn’t meant to be. That’s very important rather than holding on to something for much longer than you should have because you think it should work out. So for me it’s always been about real connection with people, 100%. So any deal, any partnership, anyone I’ve ever worked with has started with a genuine chat rather than necessarily a pitch. And a great example I think of with something like that is a dear friend of mine, ⁓ Rob Antelov,

 

who’s actually an incredible ⁓ &A advisor. ⁓ He was and he still is. And when I was building Babyology, Rob, probably after two years, approached me or I met him through a friend of mine and we had a coffee and I was nowhere near any type of ⁓ &A exit, whatever. And this is what he does. But I think probably for the next six or seven years, I would have a coffee or chat to Rob every year or every 18 months and just ask for his advice and he’d give it out to me, with no idea that when it came

 

to what I would approach him. And I’d actually met other advisors through the journey and worked with them for a while. But when it came to, you know, me raising money at the end and selling the business and who I wanted by my side, hands down, it was Rob, because I’d built that trust with him. He’d given me all that knowledge over those years. And I mean, that was a brilliant experience for me and for him. And since then, I think I’ve introduced him to 15 to 20 other entrepreneurial friends who he’s, you know, given advice to over the years. Some of them he’s sold their businesses.

 

some of them he hasn’t but I look at that as a real pinnacle for what relationships and partnerships out there are is that whole you know you stand by someone for years you don’t know if it’s ever gonna go anywhere but when the time comes you know it might go somewhere and then it’s it’s a win for everyone so a huge influence in my life yeah no he’s good guy and I don’t think

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (11:25)

Yeah, to crystal

 

And I agree,

 

think partnerships are so hard. I I’ve worked for individuals who’ve been probably the longest standing partners in the search and recruitment world. And it’s admirable because it is not easy to choose partners. I’ve gone into business with people before and I’ve looked to go into business with people before and read the you know, seen the red flag just before we’ve done.

 

signed on the dotted line and I approached it really like a marriage because it’s much easier to call it before you get married than trying to unbundle it once you’re married.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (12:10)

and a lot of people don’t get to do, a lot of people find out after the time that it’s not a good fit with someone. And it really is, you spend more time than your business partner than you do with your actual partner if you’re in business. And one thing I’ve always done is I’ve never had a business with other people that, know, partnership with them. It just isn’t my style, I don’t think. I like to make decisions very quickly and you can’t often do that when you’ve got two or three founders.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (12:37)

Well, when you got to buy in, I know I was in business with somebody you always used to say to me, and I love them dearly and they’re a friend, but they were, I’m like you, I’m a quick decision maker. And they would always say, I need to think about it overnight. I’d go,

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (12:52)

hahahaha

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (12:55)

Exactly. And that’s what I’m-

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (12:57)

I know yeah and look sometimes you need those people to slow you down because I don’t always

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (13:02)

They weren’t away,

 

they were often right. I often stop me jumping into the deep end too soon.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (13:10)

No, absolutely. But I also find that it’s hard to get slowed down. Board work is a great example of where everything moves very slowly on boards. And I’m like, we’ve got the meeting now. Why don’t we all just say yes? Why are we tabling it for the next three month meeting? I just don’t understand how that works.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (13:28)

Have you had advisory boards wrapped around your businesses, Mandi?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (13:34)

I’ve had advisory boards but never actual boards which I think is for that reason. So I’ve always employed advisors or paid advisors or given them equity but I haven’t had a full know NED board experience around me. I’ve been an NED but I haven’t had them on my board because I just don’t think that’s a way that I work very well with seven other people telling me like this is what we want to do and we want to go back and we want to review this. I’d be like I’m already halfway there so yeah.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (14:00)

Yeah, you’re one of these people it’s hard to keep pace with so I can see that.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (14:07)

Yeah, we’ll get to that afterwards. It’s not always the best way.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (14:12)

Yeah. So when you’re networking, Mandi, when you walk into a room of people, do you scope out and know who you’re going to connect with? How do you approach it?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (14:25)

Do I think, and to be honest, as I get older, big groups of people and big conferences and big events is not necessarily my thing. I much prefer going to a dinner with 10 people or those smaller groups where you really can connect. But for me, I think it’s never about networking. It’s more about the connection. And I’m drawn to people who are authentic, who are curious, as I said before, and who aren’t very performative. So a lot of it, and I know it sounds crazy, but it does come down.

 

to gut instinct or that red flag as you were talking about. I’ve always been very good at reading people and I can read someone within five minutes which might not be very fair but I really can read them instantly and can usually tell if someone’s energy values and just feeling aligns with mine and I think it comes down to like if that conversation feels real and curious I will lean into it but if it’s very one-sided and all about their wins and all about what they’ve achieved.

 

or if they’re distracted looking over my shoulder at who else is in the room, I know that they’re probably not my vibe and I tend to stay away from people like that. And I think I’ve also, I’ve just got no time for small talk. I don’t wanna talk about where you’re going on holidays, your kids, the weather, anything like that. I wanna have real honest conversations about ideas and what drives people. So I think you can really make up your mind within a few minutes ⁓ what someone’s

 

going to be like and you you get that my god we’re very similar or you know this is not a conversation that’s going to be a deep thoughtful instance.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (16:04)

Yeah, you’ve kind of described how my philosophy on life, mean, going to an opening of an event is I would rather stab myself in the eye with a pen. I think that term networking is almost a dirty word. You talked about collaborating and finding connection, much more appealing.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (16:26)

Exactly, collaboration is where it’s all at I think. And to give you an example, I recently did a retreat with 25 women in the Gold Coast which was incredible. Lisa Ailes was the host, she’s incredible. And they all came away, all these women said they’ve made lifelong friends. There are people they never thought they’d meet but they actually didn’t still at the end of the retreat knew what those other people did for a living. Because I think, you know, that whole what do you do, where are you from, where did you go to school, it’s all from the past.

 

a real conversation with someone about the fact that, I don’t know, you’ve got a deaf person in your family and they’ve got a deaf person in their family and you bond over something really real and you don’t actually know what they do but you know you want to be part of their world. So I found that really interesting that women can come away these days and not know if they’re a lawyer or a doctor or a librarian. It really doesn’t matter anymore because it’s all about if you connect with them or not.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (17:21)

Yeah, I agree. So back to entrepreneurship, when you’re trying to scale, what’s the biggest mistake you see people make when they approach a potential brand or a business partnership?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (17:36)

Right. Look, I think for a lot of people, they still see it as the one size fits all model. So they’ll put together a beautiful shiny deck and it might look beautiful and it might have amazing information in it. But when you send that out to 10, 20, 50 different brands, you DM people on LinkedIn, track people down, it’s not going to work because I think true partnerships, they don’t work like that. It’s really about understanding what that specific

 

brand, all that specific individual, what their challenges are, what they care about and how you can help them achieve their goals. They’re kind of the three things that I always look at because it’s different for even like Apple to Samsung, it’s different from McDonald’s to Hungry Jacks. Even though you go, well, I’m going out to all these fast food because I want a fast food partner, it’s individual for every single one you do. And I think I touched on this before, but for my first eight years, was in hospitality.

 

And honestly, I think the world would be a better place if every 20 something year old spent some time in hospitality because it really teaches you what it means ⁓ to see people, understand people, how to have genuine conversations. mean, I was 19 or 20 and I was working at, you know, the Shangri-La in the city. And at that age, to be able to notice how people feel when you make them feel a certain way, it’s really affected the way I, yeah, the way I work in the

 

in anything I do in any specific business. And one of my all time favourite books, which I’m not sure if you’ve read, is Unreasonable Hospitality by Will Garagno. my god, it’s like I’ve probably read it six times and I sometimes read it or listen to it in the car. But basically I recommend anyone read it no matter what industry you’re in. It’s a brilliant reminder that… ⁓

 

Yeah, you can make people feel truly cared for in this magic in the tiny things that happen. I think that that’s where people go wrong. It doesn’t have to be expensive. It can be the smallest tiny thing. And his book’s brilliant. He talks about one of the biggest things he did one day for people at his restaurant in New York, which ended up being the top restaurant in the world, but was go out and buy a hot dog for them from a local hot dog vendor because he overheard them say they’re about to leave New York and they didn’t get a chance to have

 

hot dog. So it was like a six dollar, you know, thing that he did, but he took it to the kitchen. It was cut into four incredible pieces. It was plated up. And because he overheard this conversation, it’s those tiny things that I’m always trying to do in life to, whether it’s my clients, my people that come on retreat or anything, I just try and surprise and delight them with tiny things that will make a difference. And I can guarantee you if there’s a partnership to be had, that’s the way to do it versus, you know, blitzing 200 companies with the same doc.

 

moment.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (20:31)

I couldn’t agree more, And in my own experience coming out of the executive search world, I knew only too well that if I had approached somebody, my approach was going to unearth their sort of status quo at the time. these conversations used to go on for months and months and months. But I always emailed on a Friday afternoon, even when I had nothing to tell them, simply to say, no update, because

 

what it felt a short period of time for me, it felt like an eternity for them being on the hook. So it is those little things of caring about how people feel and putting yourself in their shoes that I think is so, so important.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (21:16)

And what that would have felt to that person on a Friday afternoon, it meant that they probably never went to any other executive search person because they’re

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (21:24)

Well, it’s

 

exactly that. It’s how I won business. you’re absolutely right. So you’ve painted a pretty honest picture of juggling work and you’re part of the sandwich generation like I am. So you’ve got everybody at each end of the spectrum. What does burnout and working under pressure look like when you’re actually at the center of it?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (21:54)

Yeah, that’s very interesting and very real still for me. I still work on that a lot. But I think burnout for me, it’s not necessarily lying on the floor unable to move. It’s more of a subtle and sneaky thing that it catches up with you. So it’s doing everything for everyone, as we just said, and feeling like I’m failing at all of it, to be honest. Because when you’re stretched so thin and you’ve got the kids and you’ve got parents, and let’s not forget, there’s a husband or a partner or someone, there’s clients.

 

and says all this stuff going on, ⁓ I’ve got businesses, I’m sitting on boards, I’m whatever, and there’s nowhere to turn. And I think ⁓ for me, it’s trying to even remember what self-care feels like because every second of every day, I’m up doing something for someone else. ⁓ I’ve had, full honesty, I’ve had two proper full burnouts, nervous breakdowns in the last 20 years where I literally couldn’t get out of bed. And so I think I’m hyper aware of the signs.

 

⁓ You know that happened with that it can be tears over losing your charger for your computer It can be sitting in the car for two hours before school pickup answering emails. Whereas really I should be going for a walk ⁓ You know, it’s canceling my yin yoga, which I adore which I did cancel this morning because I knew we were doing this but you know, but doing those things, know, they kind of all just come up on you and you know, sometimes it’s even like realizing you’re lying down for a pat smear and that feels great because it’s

 

first time I’ve actually lied down all day. and so even though that’s quite funny it’s also quite funny.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (23:29)

It’s so good.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (23:32)

Yeah, you know, like you go, my God, I’m really looking forward to this, because it means I’ll just stop for five minutes. I’m like, that is not a healthy way to live my life. ⁓

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (23:40)

It’s not.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (23:41)

So

 

yeah, and look, and there’s no way of getting out of the sandwich generation. Like you can’t just throw it all in and run away. But it’s about learning how to manage all those pieces. So I think for me, I’ve learned through the two breakdowns, which actually take months to come back from. So if I don’t go to that place again, it’s actually much better to stop before I get there. So it’s obviously not being everything to everyone. Like sometimes I say to kids, it’s 7pm, I’m not going to cook, I’m actually going to bed to work.

 

Netflix I’ll see you all in the morning and I try and not have guilt about that because I know that I can’t possibly do that tonight. That’s just what I need and I think they’re fine with that. I cancel on things now which I never used to. Sometimes I have tickets to certain things and on the day I’ll say to a good friend you know I just I can’t I’m exhausted what I really need to do is go to bed and I’m okay.

 

with doing those things where I think for years when I was younger, I wasn’t okay with doing those. I pushed myself to go to that big event or that opening or, cause you know, what if I met someone that was gonna change my life now? I’m a bit like, I’m exhausted so I don’t have to do that. you know, having systems as well that save your sanity is good. And for me, it’s a small moment. So I’m never gonna get, you know, the big week away by myself to just ponder my own thoughts, but I will be able to have a laugh with the family.

 

I mean half the time they’re laughing at me to be honest, which you know either can make me laugh or cry Depending on my frame of mind, but yeah, it’s a dip in the ocean. It’s a one-hour Yin class It’s all those things I try and go in the ocean every single day now after I go to gym and I used to be like, oh, that’s a bit You know, I feel a bit guilty about doing that. Screw it, you know, go to gym go for a dip in the ocean I’m at my computer by 930 in the morning. So I think Yeah, it’s it’s really tricky to put those things into your life. But otherwise we

 

just burn ourselves into the ground. Our parents’ generation didn’t have laptops and mobiles and all this stuff where we were on 24-7, but I have the ability to wake up at 5 and start working and work till midnight. So it’s up to me to…

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (25:47)

Not those things.

 

I mean, it is a good point. I I grew up with a father who was on the land and the hours that they’d work, particularly during harvest, were ridiculous. And I probably learned to work to burn out by observing. And you potentially did too with a father that was going hard. And sometimes that’s just baked into our DNA, I think. And it’s to unlearn it.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (26:16)

It’s really hard to unlearn it. And I think for years, our generation has also been saying, oh, the younger millennials, they don’t know how to work. They, you know, they come in late, they leave early. I’ve actually changed the way I think about them and think, actually, we could learn from them. They’re out at run clubs. They’re leaving early to go to yoga or whatever. And I think like good on them. Whereas, you know, 10 years ago, I was like, oh, you hire people and they leave the office at 6pm. But like, good on them. We should have done that for 20 years.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (26:44)

And you know, when I find myself thinking that, I do sometimes wonder whether we’re admiring them or we’re actually jealous of them because they’ve actually taken the decision that we haven’t done.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (26:58)

Absolutely, and we’re paying the price for that now. I would have loved to all those years have gone and left and gone to out with a friend rather than being like, can’t, I’m gonna work late tonight. Like I was the one forcing myself to work late. No one else was doing that. But I think that it’s great. They have much more of a balance than we do. Maybe they won’t have as many mental health problems in their 40s, 50s and 60s that we do.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (27:19)

Yeah.

 

So do you have, do you have the ability now to realise when you’re getting too wrapped up in, your business?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (27:31)

To be honest, it’s something I’m working on. found a really, really good, she’s almost like a life coach, work coach slash psychologist. So she’s very good at actually, cause I came to her and said, after my last breakdown, which was only last year, I said, I feel like I don’t have that internal, other people are able to stop when they want to stop. I will take on more and more and more work until I have a breakdown because I’m just a yes person. So she’s helping me put systems in process.

 

in place and like at the moment we’re working on the fact that 2026 is full. Mandi you have to say no and you say to people from now on I can work with you in 2027 which doesn’t come easily to me but it’s just I think it’s going to be for the best so it’s I don’t feel like I’ve got that internal monologue but I’m working on it.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (28:21)

But there’s a great message. You’ve recognized that you don’t, but it’s smart to put somebody around you who can manage that. So that’s a bit like six eyes and we’ve all.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (28:34)

Yeah, absolutely. And she’s in charge of that. Yeah, definitely. Like I said to her the other day, like I’ve kind of had two or three retreats a year, then six a year, and next year I’ve got 10. And so we’ve gone through and worked out that like 10 is actually the maximum amount.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (28:50)

It’s

 

like doing ten weddings, Mandi. That’s a lot.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (28:52)

I

 

know, I know, each retreat takes like 350 to 400 hours. So, and I don’t do that, don’t sit down and work it out. So really what I’m going to need is staff at this point to help me do this. But I didn’t realise that she’s the one that looked at the hours, looked at the week and went, do you want to work 130 hours a week? I’m like, no, she’s like, well, that’s what you’ve just set yourself up for. So yeah, it’s about finding people that want to help. Because I don’t, I just say, oh my God, that sounds so exciting.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (29:20)

There’s your mirror. Yes.

 

Well, I’m here talking with Mandi Gunsberger, who is a visionary entrepreneur and as you’ve already gathered, a workaholic. But coming up, we’re going to explore the power of being vulnerable. If you’re loving the Power of Women podcast, be sure to jump onto our YouTube channel and hit that subscribe button to ensure you never miss an episode. So you’ve been pretty candid in our discussion today. ⁓

 

about burnout and your last one as you said was only in the last 12 months ago. What did you do after selling Babyology?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (30:00)

⁓ that’s a big question. ⁓ yeah, after selling Babyology, I, well, I thought I’d planned, carefully planned at my exit, to be honest, but, and I’d negotiated exactly how many hours I would consult to the new owners as a maximum. ⁓ But the day the deal was done, they literally said, we’ve got it from here. So that was a massive blow to me, which was, you know, for the best in the long term. But I still remember walking out of the office that day.

 

feeling like Jerry Maguire.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (30:32)

Yeah.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (30:33)

I packed a box, I had a tin of tuna and a notebook. That was pretty much all I had in my own company. ⁓ And you know, and I even had to ask them, like, I wanted to take my staff for lunch. And it just all felt so surreal. But we’d always been so big on setting up a Wiki that we’d had like this 400 page Wiki, which now everyone has with their business, but it was the Bible of the business that they were basically like, we’ve got it from here. We don’t need to anymore. So that was really ⁓ odd, I think. And that was very surreal after 11 years of building a business.

 

you

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (31:03)

Sum

 

up in two words what that feeling was. What are those two words?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (31:09)

those two words would just be ⁓ devastated, surprised. I just, took me a few weeks to be like, for one minute we’re signing papers and we’ve just done this big deal and now I’m no longer in the office. Cause I think also in media it was unheard of. Like I basically sold at that time thinking someone would buy us for two or three years and then we’d be able to live our lives. And all of a sudden we were leading our lives and didn’t know what to do with them. Cause my husband was in the business then as well.

 

and we were both all of a sudden like unemployed. ⁓ So that was okay. But then, so I think I was like, I’m going to help other founders. So, you know, I went and consulted with other founders, still very fresh out of my business. But honestly, ⁓ it just didn’t light me up at that point in my life. I found it really hard when I couldn’t make things happen. Yeah. And you’d go and you meet with someone who suggest all this stuff. And a month later, none of it had been done. So I was actually quite, I think I was

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (31:57)

and weren’t ready to see.

 

Well

 

that’s the thing about consulting. I think consulting is really hollow because you come up with all of the big picture stuff but it’s not your task to do the implementation. I find that for a doer, and I’ve seen that in the search world, I would never advise somebody with your demeanor to go into the consulting world because it would be unfulfilling.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (32:22)

That’s me.

 

Exactly. Well, I know that now, but I did not know that. So, I found it like really frustrating. So really what I did then was I threw myself into planning a massive bucket list adventure to Tuscany with my family. So we moved our three girls over to Tuscany for a year. Husband wasn’t very keen to go. He was literally like, you need a job. You need something to entertain you. But I’m like, we are going to Tuscany. So, yes, so we had the most incredible life changing year where we went to

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (32:37)

Not much.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (33:05)

over 20 different countries that year. My girls were five, 11 and 12. So really interesting time to pull them out of their worlds. know, lots of family time, no running around, no meetings, no agendas. You know, we did some consulting over there in the early hours, but really we just got to hang out and enjoy. And that was 2019. So we were really lucky. We didn’t even know COVID was around the corner.

 

So we did that whole year there, bought them back to go to school in that February when everyone was like, my God, you’re from Italy, you’ve got COVID.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (33:36)

Four weeks before.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (33:39)

before

 

it all happened exactly. So it was kind of crazy. And then I think came the harder years, that whole post COVID-y time. ⁓ You know, for the first time in 20 years, I think I decided I’d go get a real job. And you know, I hadn’t worked for anyone else for years, but I just thought, you know, the stability, was that whole grass is greener on the other side, stability of the paycheck, someone else being in charge, me just, you know, rocking up and starting.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (34:05)

in my book.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (34:06)

Yes, I got fired three times, not once, but three times.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (34:11)

How

 

did that go? Not so well.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (34:14)

Not so well. just couldn’t stay in my box. I would go in and try and make too much change, you know, and other founders or other people in organizations that

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (34:23)

Were

 

you surprised to be fired, Merdie? ⁓

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (34:27)

I surprised the first and second time, the third time I kind of expected it and then you know realised as many of us are we’re just unemployable like no one wants someone who’s been doing their own

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (34:39)

And that’s a badge of honor, there’s nothing wrong with that, that is a badge of honor.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (34:42)

No, exactly.

 

But I just thought it’d be nice for a while, like to be, you know, someone pays you to sick leave and for like holiday leave. Well, just nice to be able to say to the kids, don’t worry, I’ve got this rather than we really don’t know what’s going to happen this time next week or next year. ⁓ But yeah, I think that silver lining of that period in that chapter reminded me to my core that I am a founder, that I do like to create things that I’m, you know, that

 

that’s really what I’m built for. So, you know, I use everything I’ve learned and I’ve, you know, gone again, cause I was like, I think I could do another one. ⁓ it’s not all bad, but it was like very much, you know, after six, I’d always get to that six month period and then they’d call me in and be like, yeah, this is not working out. So I’m like, okay, great. Yeah. Sometimes it was like, like I was completely unaware. And then other times I’m like,

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (35:18)

Thank you guys.

 

for over performing and not under performing. Who would have thought?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (35:41)

Yeah, but was overperforming but it was also just like I think this is what we should do and this is how we should do it and we’re not you know we’ve only got this percentage of this and I think other people don’t want to hear that they’re happy to go at their slower pace ⁓ and not have someone else tell them what to do so I know that.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (35:59)

Good

 

to know. So you’ve said from the deepest resets, sometimes it doesn’t come from doing more, but it actually does come from doing less, a bit like your year in Tuscany. Why do you actually think that is such a hard message for overachievers, such as yourself, to actually absorb?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (36:22)

Yeah, and you died, sounds like you’re one of, you’re the same as me, so. But I think, to be honest, for… ⁓

 

For most of us high achievers, our entire identity has been built around doing things and ticking things off and getting things done. Like that’s the way I’ve lived since I was a teenager. So I’ve been rewarded my whole life for being productive, for being reliable, for being capable. You know, I’m the one that gets things done. I’m the one that organizes the family get togethers, the Christmas, you know, who’s bringing what. So when you suddenly stop or slow down and say, I don’t want to host that,

 

it does feel or it can feel like a failure. ⁓ So yes, I struggle with that. And I think, ⁓ yeah, I’m probably not the only person out there who writes something on my to-do list after I’ve done it, just so I have the glee in crossing it off and feeling like I’ve achieved it. No, see, we all do it. I’m like done that, putting that on my list, crossing it off, exactly.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (37:16)

That was just me!

 

have a day list with colour coded tabs that vary in colour based on urgency, Mandi.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (37:32)

Yeah, no see we need help we need help and it’s not easy for people like us then to slow down to sit and read a book You know, I’ll sit and read a book But then I’ve got my laptop open and I’m over here going what emails have I got because that’s what makes me feel good is doing those things So for me it did take the complete burnouts, which I hope you know other people listening Do not have to go through to realize that you know it rest is not a weakness for me It always felt like a weakness I had to keep going but it actually is more wisdom

 

than anything. I said, looking at the younger generation and them taking time out, I wish that I would have done that earlier or given myself permission to pause or to breathe or to go to yoga or to read a book, you know. But it’s really uncomfortable for people like myself or yourself that spent decades proving their worth through how many things I can achieve on a list every day. So it is, it’s learning a new language and it’s, you know, a language of stillness and not having to be busy, like, you know, going through…

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (38:31)

Do

 

you think your kids are learning? Do you think you’re producing another generation of you? Or do you think they’re a little bit more informed?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (38:40)

I think to be honest, and they’re now 13, 18 and 19. No, I think they’ve seen me. They’ve been through my breakdowns. They’ve been through my last previous three months where from last, I don’t know, September till December, I really couldn’t get out of bed because I was so burnt out. You you rebuild yourself by doing one activity a day. Today, I’m going to have a shower. Today, like really severe burns.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (39:03)

You’ve

 

really done it, haven’t you?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (39:05)

I

 

just hit the bottom so quickly because I never know when to stop. So I think the girls have seen that and it actually has taught them a lesson.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (39:14)

we’re

 

not going to do that, we’re not going to

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (39:17)

You’re crazy.

 

Why do you like, you now when I’m like, I’ve got these 10 retreats, they’re all like, you’re a bloody idiot, mum. Like, you know that you’re gonna fall under all that weight. And I’m like, no, no, I’m gonna get help. I’m gonna hire people because I don’t wanna be there again. And I’m not good at saying no. So I’ve got this other person over here who is my no person, my kind of advisor. And then my kids and my family that say, do you really wanna go there again? So I do think the girls, even the little one at 13, you know, has seen me.

 

in and goes are you driving me to school? No, looks like you’re staying in bed again today. So you know I don’t think that’s necessarily a negative thing for them to learn at this age. I think that’s what life is you know you work too hard and you burn out and you fall in a heat.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (39:56)

No, no, no. ⁓

 

Yeah, and I know in my own role models in life, I learned as much from the negative things as I did from the positive. And I mean, that should be our learning journey in life in general that we acquire it from all of those experiences. So tell me about your business. You’re now focusing on other people’s wellness, I suspect, in these retreats. The irony of that,

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (40:20)

Yeah.

 

Exactly. that’s the thing. What does it look like if the owner and founder of a wellness business who talks about giving yourself a rest has a nervous breakdown? It’s not a good look. so ⁓ yes, so I definitely try to practice what I preach and take that pause and take that breath. But yeah, absolutely. Nourish Travel was born out of my own ⁓ healing journey. ⁓ You know, I hit that wall after I sold Babyology and I spent so many years in that constant juggling the business, juggling the kids, juggling parents.

 

I mean, ⁓

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (41:24)

how they live their life.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (41:25)

And quite often, it’s incredible. So I got there and I was like, you know, 10, 12, 2, and I’d be late for everything because quite often that 10 o’clock meeting is them saying, let’s have a coffee. Let’s get to know each other.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (41:38)

I

 

why in the rag trade we always used to know that fabric deliveries would always be late from Italy because they ran on their own time and that is what

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (41:48)

own schedule and I don’t think that’s a bad thing. They’re calmer, they’re happier, love life, they have their CS star. So you know I haven’t brought a lot of that back in but the one meeting a day thing really got me because that meeting is often a coffee then a walk then a nice lunch and you you spend three or four or five hours with one person and then you decide whether you’re going to work with them. So talk about partnerships and really understanding what someone wants. That’s an incredible thing.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (42:15)

There’s a lot

 

to learn. there’s ⁓

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (42:17)

Whereas

 

we think having eight meetings a day is really the way to do it. Bang, bang, bang, bang, bang. And you you get on a call and you’re like, right, where are we? Have we signed a contract? What are we doing? That’s not necessarily the way other people work around the world. So, ⁓ yeah, I think during that time, I started to do things that helped me feel more human and come out of that real adrenal fatigue I was in. was, you know, having honest conversations with many other women as well, all through COVID, you know, just about that they’re all carrying

 

all these things. So I think that’s how NARS travel really began was to be able to create a space to offer other women and men. We have a lot of men that come on our retreats as well. Just permission to slow down. So I do things that are one day. I do things that are three days. I do them locally. I do them internationally in Tuscany or Botswana or wherever, you know, hosts want to go. But it’s all about, even if it’s just the one day one, giving you that space to just look out for yourself. If you want to spend that day sitting

 

reading a book and not talking to anyone, do it. Like I don’t force anyone, it’s not a retreat where I’ll gong your room and say, you know, it’s time for the morning sunset walk. If someone, you know, I had a woman recently that came up, that came to one and she had a one, a four and a five year old.

 

had never been away from them and her husband gifted it to her. She just wanted to sleep and I was like, I’m just gonna come check on you and make sure that you’ve eaten, but otherwise you don’t need to be at anything. And like, so for everyone, it actually means something different. It’s some people it’s connecting with others, some people it’s doing nothing and some people it’s filling that schedule with, you know, one thing after the other. But you know, everyone is about to have that.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (43:57)

Mind you, that’s harder on the organiser because you haven’t got a set agenda.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (44:03)

It is and what I do is I have a set agenda. Actually today I’ve just sent out for my next one. These are the five or six things we’re thinking of doing in the afternoon. We’re not doing all of them. Let us know which ones you would want to do the most and I will surprise you with which ones we do. But every single day of every moment I say nothing is compulsory. If you don’t want to come to anything you don’t have to. But women have and a lot of men as well have FOMOs. So the minute you actually put something on a schedule they

 

God this going to the beekeeping might be the best thing ever. What if I don’t go to that? then what if I don’t go to this? So I actually do allow space where nothing is on for those people that feel FOMO because they can’t help themselves come to everything and then at the end of it they say I really wish there was some downtime because I didn’t give myself any. So it is harder for me as an organizer but I think I’m getting to the point where I understand the way people’s rhythms work and giving them that two to four or two to five afternoon gap will allow them to

 

a nap or a swim or do yoga or read a book or whatever. But yeah if I schedule something super fun they’ll be there so we try and it’s like toddlers you have to give them their afternoon break.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (45:14)

So Mandi, I’d love you to speak directly to the female entrepreneur or business person listening to the podcast today. If you were to pay forward all the amassed knowledge and wisdom that you’ve learned over time and could speak to the version of yourself who was running on empty, what would you tell her?

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (45:39)

The first thing I tell her is to stop trying to do it all.

 

It’s actually impossible and I don’t know anyone who can do it all and not have massive mental health issues by doing that. So I think what I’ve learnt is I don’t need to earn rest or love or success by doing more. ⁓ You know, you’ve got to believe, which, you know, I’ve just turned 50 and it’s taken me this many years, but you’ve got to believe that you are enough even when you pause and especially when you pause. So taking that pause doesn’t mean you’re not succeeding.

 

and that you’re failing, it means that you actually care about yourself, about the others around you, about your family, about your business, whatever you’re doing, because it will give you more to be able to do things. know, it’s that the world’s not going to fall apart if you take that breath. And asking for help is not a weakness, it’s actually a strength to say like, not coping, can’t do it all, don’t know how to stop doing it all, which is where I’m always at. Like I actually can’t stop myself, so I need other people to

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (46:42)

You

 

need an outsourced

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (46:45)

you

 

Exactly, and that’s fine. I think that’s fine. I know that about myself after all these years that I’m my own worst enemy and I’ll take on too much till I fall. So I think that would be the biggest thing. ⁓ You know, and that’s why I absolutely love doing what I do now because I get these women that come to me. I build a relationship with men and women for the six months prior to a retreat about what they want, what it looks like, why they’re coming. You know, it’s not just those three days and then I tailor it to them so that they get the rest

 

and that individual thing that they need. As I was saying, a retreat is not a one size fits all, get 25 people. I actually understand each person and why they’ve come and how I can make it special for them. So I love it. It’s like all the things I’ve ever done put into one now.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (47:32)

how wonderful. Well, Mandi, thank you so much for sharing your entrepreneurial knowledge and also being so candid about being ⁓ so focused and so committed to pushing yourself to the brink. I think for many listeners, and I know interviewing you here today, it is a bit like somebody holding up the mirror and you’re going, okay.

 

Alrighty, I need to read the signs. need to listen. And as you said so rightly just before, the wheels are not going to fall off if you take an extra hour to go to yoga class or you do something. And next time, ring me and say, I need to reschedule because I’ve got too much on my plate. No, don’t worry.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (48:21)

going

 

to yoga tonight. I’m going to yoga at 6pm. But no thanks for having me. It’s been so lovely to have a chat with you. Yeah, love what you do and I really hope that people get something out of this. I did warn you I was very honest. So I have been very honest.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (48:38)

That’s what we want. And Mandi, what’s the name of the business? I’m going to put it in the show notes, but give me the name of the business for the retreat. It’s nourishtravel.com. Nourishtravel.com. That’s it. Nourishtravel.com. Fantastic. And I know Mandi shows up on LinkedIn. And if you’re interested to learn more about what I do outside of the podcast, I too show up quite a bit on LinkedIn and I’ve got a power of reinvention newsletter.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (48:47)

www.nourishtravel.com

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (49:07)

that I post weekly there and like Mandi, I’m in midlife and we’re doing lots of things and we’re not stopping.

 

MANDI GUNSBERGER [Guest] (49:16)

Exactly,

 

it’s our time. children… So it’s our time. Thank very for having me, Di.

 

DI GILLETT [Host] (49:18)

Thanks Mandi. Until next time.

 

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